Thought this topic is most heard Or most experienced in lot of debates rite from schooling, graduation & including medias, we get a instant spirit when we re iterate any where even across our busy schedule!! This intuited me to pen down this and let our understanding sync across..
The one of the most powerful word in the world "Love". When we ask what is Love people start spelling out lot of meanings based on their mind set rather the actual meaning, the magical word will allow you to accept or agree variety of meanings though you know what is the actual meaning of the word,
"Arranged marriage" is a most straightforward case where everyone have the same feeling here as they stick with the dictionary.. There could also be other case where you can see exceptions in all areas there comes love cum arranged marriage.. Don't worry about that..
Hope the above history is enough for this topic, I restricted myself in penning down more or traditionally speaking my ink in the fountain pen is over! Lets derive this topic more clearly in the following few lines..
A short story: A guy met a priest and asking a difference about love and arranged marriage, as we all know no priest in this world did not give straight forward answers to any question, the same happened here and the priest asked that guy, hey dude are you able to see the sunflower garden opposite me, he said yes!, go and pluck a most beautiful sunflower from the garden for me, he went to the garden and searching, searching, searching for long and back to the priest and said I couldn't find the most beautiful sunflower from the garden, Priest murmured and said Alright mate, now go again and pluck one which ever you see first and this time he came very quickly with one flower.
Hence the priest trying to explain Love will give you lot of choices and difficult to choose the rite one for longer run, however arranged marriage doesn't give you lot of choices and may need to choose from few and get used and adjust and continue and lead the life..
Any views or different prescriptive from this is welcome, it's easy to communicate back just by adding your comment for this blog
~ Karthik
Enjoy reading
Is this a valentine month spl?!? :)
ReplyDeleteNever thought of, but it was a perfect coincidence..
Delete- Karthik
Now a days love marriage means to marry ur own lover. Arranged marriage means to marry others lover. It hurts but 100% true.
ReplyDeleteMay be buddy.. :)
DeleteDear Karthik,
ReplyDeleteAs you said "When we ask what is Love people start spelling out lot of meanings based on their mind set" is perfectly right and hope you are not exception to the rule!!!, you have started the post with the title difference between Love and Arrange marriage, and concluded nicely with a story,
but I don't agree with you in one point, you have said "Love will give you lot of choices and difficult to choose the rite one for longer run", first of all if you are choosing some one based on long run, I would say it is business not love. Love is madness, yep really it is.
I would like to restate that statement "It is the Life which gives you lot of choices, and Love would help you to choose one in which you care". I intently used the word "care", if you calling something as love because you attracted towards it and you like it very much soon it will become out of interest from your mind, because it is the universal law of attraction, rather if you call it as love because of, you are caring then really it is.
finally if you are going choose some one as your life partner, whether is it Arranged or Love, just do care always, Be madly in love with her/him No matter what ever happened. count on how much comfort are you giving to her not the other way around. be foolish and be happy at least with the one whom you care.
Again Love is madness, only very few people, really very few know this....
Hi Amuthan,
ReplyDeleteNice to see your comments and thanks a lot for your views and refining my post..
Cheers,
Karthik